Tremote

Tremote lets you use the MC interface on one machine (client) to control the playback on another (server)

Instructions

Run edia Server on the server.

Configure Media Network on the server. It can generate an Access Key.

On the client, do File/Library/Library Manager and Add Library. Enter the Access Key on the client.

Now you've loaded the library of the server on the client.

Under the client's Playing Now, the remote machine (the server) should show up in the top section of Playing Now. This might take a minute or so. You can then drag content to it or just click on it. Everything selected should then play on the server.

More

Here's a thread with more information: http://yabb.jriver.com/interact/index.php?topic=52261.0